Family stories
Families speak for themselves
Every story is different; with different backgrounds and set ups. We love to receive feedback and messages from our families. They are the only ones who can tell it like it really is…
Pregnancy & Depression
“I found I was 36 weeks pregnant and had my first little boy in July 2017 and after I fell into a deep depression. My family and partner at the time couldn’t do anything to help. My health visitor also couldn’t help and had to refer me to Home-Start Richmondshire. A week or two later I was introduced to what has become my second family. My volunteer has been a massive part in helping me get out of my depression and helping me raise my now two-year-old. She goes over and beyond for us. As of May 2019, my world turned upside down again and I gained a second son. I didn’t know I was pregnant until he arrived. I had absolutely nothing for him and Home-Start Richmondshire got me everything and even more than I needed. They were there through the long days and the heartbreak and highs of my life. I have recently gone for an operation, and they were there from the beginning to the end and helped me and my children. Without Home-Start Richmondshire I wouldn’t like to think where my life would have gone.”
When Everyday Life Just Gets a Bit Much
These words were written by the dad of a family we have supported since July 2018.
“My wife was pregnant and diagnosed with a life-threatening condition that was dangerous for both her and baby. Louise couldn’t do much for the last weeks of her pregnancy which left the upkeep of the house, looking after our two young sons and working part time solely down to me. We were also grieving parents for our daughter who had died the previous year of a rare heart condition. The stress and pressure of everyday life was becoming too much. When our volunteer arrived, immediately the pressure was off; for the first time in months, we felt some kind of normality. My wife and I were getting on better, and our children were happier. Her positive attitude and her warm personality rubbed off on the whole family. My wife doesn’t drive, and I often travel in my role with HM Forces, this is another area in which Home-Start Richmondshire have helped us. Our volunteer takes my wife to appointments; this relieves stress on me and gives my wife more independence. Home-Start have had a huge impact on our day to day lives. The staff are dedicated and compassionate. Our volunteer is such a big part of our life; she has become family. She has done more for us than she will ever know, words can’t begin to describe how grateful we are and how wonderful she really is”
Part of Our Family….
These words were written by a mum who has complex physical needs and is a wheelchair user.
“My volunteer was always on hand to help with doctors, Benefits and Council appointments. We have also had a day trip to Thorp Perrow using the pass funded by Home-Start Richmondshire which saves me a lot of money. Home-Start Richmondshire are as much a part of my family as they could be, and they’ll never get rid of me as when I no longer need my volunteer, I intend to become a volunteer myself to help other families like mine.”
Our Volunteer is like part of the family!
These words were written by the mum of a family of six children who we have supported since 2018.
“We feel like she is like part of our family. Kind, warm, really good with children – fun to be around – laughs at my crappy jokes! Not intrusive or patronising.”
Practical and Emotional Help..
These words were written by a mum who had poor mental health. The volunteer also helped mum to access counselling services and looked after the toddler in the waiting room whilst mum had her sessions.
“Practical and emotional go hand in hand e.g. showering can change emotions. When the house is tidier it lifts a weight.”
Having Someone Who’s Like a Family Member
These words were written by an Army spouse who had recently arrived from Fiji and had no family support in the UK.
“It’s a bit like having my Mum come in, she [the volunteer] just gets down on the floor and plays with him – I trust her.”
Financial Strategies to Help
These words were written by a family who lived in rural isolation. Home-Start also helped the family to access the nearest foodbank which was 20 miles away.
“It got to the point where we started struggling financially, so that’s where Home-Start Richmondshire gave us strategies and ideas to get things back under control.
Areas we cover
And everywhere in-between!
If in doubt if you are in our area, please contact us and we can advise you.